"If you're feeling frustrated Or Hopeless in Trying to Get Your Relationship Back on Track, And You Just Don't Know Where to Turn For Real Answers That work.....Then This May Be The Most Important Letter You Ever Read"
(To all my friends...do read this....)
Dear Friend,
I want to take a second and think back a time when you and your boyfriend or husband were madly in love with each other.
You both felt that intense love, attraction and excitement with one another...just by being in each others' presence.
You couldn't even go a day, let alone a few hours without wanting to talk or connect with each other...and you couldn't get enought of one another even when you spent all night alone, just the two of you.
Being togethter, your future was going to be amazing.
Do you remember the feeling?
Can you think back to how you looked and felt then?
Was your energy level at an all-time high?
Were you taking better care of yourself and feeling sexy, beautiful, joyful and energized?
Did your guy do little favours for you, or surprise you by bringing you small gifts or create spontaneous moments with you?
Thinking back...does all that now seem like a thing of the past in your relationship?
Has that passion and excitement faded away?
Well.....what if you could have things back to the way they were in the beginning of your relationship?
Your relationship likely started off with a whirlwind of passion.
But now that you're thinking about it...has the thing that felt so great at first lasted with your boyfriend?
Or has your relationship seemed to fizzle out over time?
If things have seemed to slow or come to a stop altogether, then you're probably feeling like trying to be together can feel like more WORK than FUN.
Maybe you're just not talking the way you used to.
Or maybe you can tell he's just not there as much with you in his heart or mind?
Or maybe something even more serious has been going on, and you have no idea how to feel about it...let alone deal with it in your relationship?
Well...what if you knew an easy way to keep that intense passion, love and excitement going strong with your boyfriend for as long as you wanted it to last?
And what if you knew how to make your relationship "bulletproof" with the things that break most other couples apart?
And what if you knew how to continually experience ans set off new "sparks" with your man inside your relationship to reignite the love and passion between you....
So that anytime you felt your relationship "dimming" or falling into a new phase...you both couldn't help but make sure and stay close, loving and connected.
If you're like most women I talk to who are ins some way unhappy with their love life, then the reason it feels so painful for you NOW is because things used to be so GOOD in the past between you and your man.
But now even though the love you have for each other is still there....it's buried deep beneath all kinds of tension, anger, resentment or misunderstanding.
If you're ever felt this way in your relationship, then you might be asking yourself:
"How do I pull our love and passion back out from under the 'rubble' it's under and get back to the easy, free-flowing affectionate relationship we used to have together?"
Well, for starters....how did things get to where they are today?
Before things began to feel so difficult, there was probably a time when you were able to effortlessly SHARE what you were thinking and feeling. You made each other laugh. He would send you affectionate notes and messages just to "make your day".
You felt that you could really RELY on him to do what he said he would do, and follow through. He almost seemed to ANTICIPATE you needs before you had a chance to ask for anything.
He used to care deeply about your happiness, and would do just about anything to make sure you knew how much he loved and appreciated you.
He would touch you or caress you affectionately wherever he was near you, without you haveing to initiate it or even think about it.
You had never felt so secure and adored as you did when things were "right" between you.
If all these things are a thing of the past in your relationship, then I can't blame you for feeling like you'd do just about ANYTHING to get back to that loving and "right" place again.
Because when a relationship is WORKING, the world feels like a friendly place...and everything just seems to FLOW in your life.
But somewhere along the way....something changed.
You don't know exactly when it was, or maybe even the real reasons WHY. But little by little you man stopped doing the intimate things that bonded you each other.
And now your boyfriend doesn't make you feel that loving and supported feeling that carried you even when things in your life were tough and stressful.
He no longer LISTENS to what you try to tell him.
He forget important dates, events or things you were supposed to do together. Event the big things that he knows are important to you...they all seem to be afterthoughts for him now.
On one level, he's slowly been shutting you out of his life....to where you hardly feel any real meaningful connection between the two of you.
And, if you're honest, I think you'll recognize that you've probably been shuttling him out of your life too, each time you feel hurt by him.
maybe you've shut him out, simply because you feel hurt or painfulyy disconnected from him.
And the kicker for you is....while all this has been happening and your relationship has changed, you keep giving MORE and MORE to try and make things work.
You're putting so much energy and worry into holding up the relationship...and yet it doesn't seem to help one bit.
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